Veteran actor Anupam Kher, known for his versatile performances and deep connection with audiences, has opened up for the very first time about one of the most personal aspects of his life — not having biological children with his wife, actress and politician Kirron Kher.

In a recent candid interview, Anupam shared his thoughts with surprising honesty, addressing a topic that has remained private for decades. While the couple has been together for over 35 years, fans have long speculated about why they never had children together. Now, the actor has finally decided to speak his truth — and it’s far more touching than anyone expected.

Anupam began by expressing that he had never felt the “need to explain” his private decisions, but felt the time was right to talk about it — not out of pressure, but out of reflection.

“There comes a time in your life when silence can be misunderstood. So I thought, why not say it as it is?” he said during the interview.

He continued by acknowledging that while society often measures happiness by traditional family markers like having children, his and Kirron’s relationship was never defined by those norms. Instead, he said, they chose a life rooted in shared respect, understanding, and mutual support.

“Kirron already had a son [Sikandar Kher] when we got married, and from day one, I saw him as my own,” Anupam explained. “I never felt the absence of a biological child because we built a beautiful family in our own way.”

He went on to describe his bond with Sikandar as “natural and evolving.” “I have never called him my stepson. He is my son, period.”

The actor, who has been in the industry for over four decades, shared that his decision was also shaped by the demands of his career and the unique challenges that come with fame and public life.

“Parenthood is not a label — it’s an emotion, a responsibility. I didn’t want to bring a child into this world unless I was fully ready — emotionally and practically. I respect the role of a father too much to do it half-heartedly.”

His words struck a chord with fans and fellow actors alike, many of whom took to social media to express admiration for his honesty. The interview quickly went viral, sparking thoughtful conversations around non-traditional family choices.

One of the most powerful moments came when he reflected on how society treats childless couples.

“There’s this quiet judgment — this assumption that something is lacking. But I can tell you with full confidence, nothing was ever missing in our lives. We chose a different path, and we’ve been happy.”

He also credited Kirron for being his strongest support system through every phase of life. “She is my best friend, my toughest critic, and my anchor. We never needed to complete our family with children. We completed each other.”

Kirron Kher, a respected actress and current Member of Parliament, has previously spoken warmly of Anupam’s role in her son Sikandar’s life. In past interviews, she has praised the way Anupam stepped into a father figure role effortlessly, without ever trying to “replace” anyone, but rather by adding value with love and guidance.

As Anupam approaches his 70s, his reflections come across as peaceful, full of gratitude. He ended the conversation by saying:

“I may not be a biological father, but I have nurtured students, mentored actors, inspired youngsters. That, too, is a kind of parenthood. Love is not limited by biology.”

This rare and emotional revelation has earned Anupam Kher widespread respect from both his fans and critics. In a world where celebrities often shy away from vulnerability, his openness feels refreshing and real.

With this honest admission, Anupam Kher has not only shared a piece of his heart but also broadened the conversation around family, choice, and what it truly means to live a fulfilled life.